Kev cob qhia koj tus dev kom ua raws li cov lus txib tso tawm zoo li "poob nws" yog qhov tseem ceeb rau ntau yam. Nws muaj txiaj ntsig zoo rau kev ua si lom zem xws li nqa lossis ua tsov rog, tab sis nws kuj siv tau los ua kom koj tus dev muaj kev nyab xeeb. Cov dev nyiam khaws thiab noj yam tsis zoo rau lawv. Muaj ib daim ntawv tso tawm txhais tau tias koj tuaj yeem thov koj tus dev kom tso cov khoom tawm.
Lub cue "poob nws" tuaj yeem kawm hauv ob peb kauj ruam yooj yim. Rau feem ntau cov dev, koj tuaj yeem qhia qhov cue no hauv ob peb feeb, tab sis rau lwm tus, nws tuaj yeem siv sijhawm ntau dua. Yog tias koj tus dev tau cuam tshuam yooj yim, ua siab ntev thiab ua raws. Cia kev cob qhia cue txhua hnub kom txog thaum lawv tau txais. Cov kauj ruam uas muaj nyob rau hauv phau ntawv qhia no suav nrog cov txheej txheem kev cob qhia zoo thiab tsis txhob rau txim rau koj tus dev vim tsis ua raws li cue.
Ua ntej koj pib
Tus yuam sij rau kev siv kev cob qhia zoo rau koj tus dev yog nrhiav lawv "txiaj". Qhov no txhais tau li cas yog xam seb qhov khoom plig twg yog qhov txhawb siab tshaj plaws rau lawv. Rau qee tus dev, qhov no yog khoom plig khoom plig; rau lwm tus, nws yog ib qho khoom ua si nyiam lossis kev hlub thiab qhuas.
Qhov twg nqi zog txhawb koj tus dev yog tsim nyog los siv rau qhov kev cob qhia no. Hauv phau ntawv qhia ib kauj ruam dhau los no, koj tau qhia kom siv kev kho mob los muab koj tus dev, tab sis koj tuaj yeem hloov qhov no yooj yim nrog cov khoom ua si lossis petting yog tias koj xav tau.
Kuj siv yog lo lus hais ntawm "tso tseg," tab sis koj tuaj yeem cob qhia koj tus dev nrog txhua lo lus uas koj xaiv. Yog tias koj nyiam "muab" lossis "tso tawm," qhov ntawd zoo, tsuas yog ua kom zoo ib yam. Kev cob qhia thiab kev ua yog tib yam. Koj tus dev yuav kawm dab tsi cue koj cob qhia lawv siv.
Tub-los-kauj ruam qhia koj tus dev kom "tso tseg"
1. Pib nrog cov khoom ua si nyiam
Pib koj qhov kev cob qhia los ntawm kev muab koj tus dev ib qho khoom ua si uas lawv nyiam. Muab rau lawv. Yog tias koj tus dev tau dhau los ntawm cov khoom ua si, koj tuaj yeem cia lawv ua si li ob peb feeb ua ntej koj pib kawm; cia li tsis txhob tos ntev kom koj tus dev tsis txaus siab rau qhov khoom ua si.
2. Hloov cov khoom ua si rau kev kho mob
Tuav kev kho rau koj tus dev lub qhov ntswg thaum lawv muaj cov khoom ua si hauv lawv lub qhov ncauj. Qhov thib ob uas koj tus dev tso cov khoom ua si, muab qhov kho. Rov ua qhov no ob peb zaug, yog li koj tus dev kawm koom nrog tso cov khoom ua si nrog kev kho.
3. Ntxiv cov lus qhia
Ntxiv koj cov lus xaiv xaiv, xws li "tso tseg." Hais kom ruaj khov thiab meej thaum tuav ib qho kev kho mob ze ntawm koj tus dev lub qhov ntswg. Sij hawm dhau mus, tuav txoj kev kho kom deb, thiab maj mam nce qhov deb kom ntev npaum li koj tus dev teb rau lo lus nug.
Yog tias koj tus dev tsis teb cov lus nug ntawm qhov deb, txav mus ze dua thiab ua haujlwm ntxiv rau nws. Sim cov cue intermittently tsis muaj kev kho mob, thiab hloov kho nrog qhuas. Nws tuaj yeem ua haujlwm zoo tshaj plaws rau qee zaus kho koj tus dev nrog cue lub sijhawm los txhawb kev coj tus cwj pwm zoo.
4. Tso thiab tso tseg
Thaum koj tus dev nkag siab qhov "tso nws" cue, kauj ruam tom ntej yog kom lawv "tso tseg." Tsis txhob rau txim rau koj tus dev yog tias lawv khaws cov khoom poob tam sim tom qab. Siv cov lus txib "tso tseg", thiab muab tshuaj kho thaum koj tus dev tawm ntawm qhov khoom poob ib leeg.
" Tsaug" yog ib qho nyuaj rau qee tus dev kom nkag siab. Tej zaum koj yuav tau ua siab ntev ntxiv, tab sis nrog kev sib raug zoo thiab kev ua siab ntev, koj tus dev yuav kawm tau nws.
5. Pov thawj tus cwj pwm
Txuas ntxiv mus tsis tu ncua kev cob qhia "poob nws" thiab "tso tseg" cov lus txib, hloov yam khoom koj tus dev yuav tsum tso thiab tawm mus. Thaum koj tus dev tuaj yeem tso lawv cov khoom ua si uas nyiam ntawm kev hais kom ua, koj yuav paub tias lawv tau ua tiav cov lus txib.
Problems With Teaching "Tshuav nws"
Peb, uas yog cov tswv, koom nrog qee yam kev coj cwj pwm uas tuaj yeem ua teeb meem nrog kev qhia cov lus txib "tso tseg". Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb tsis txhob rub ib qho khoom ua si los ntawm koj tus dev lub qhov ncauj, tuav lawv lub taub hau, los yog sim qhib lawv lub puab tsaig. Ua li no xa koj tus dev cov lus tsis raug, thiab nws tuaj yeem xaus tsis zoo. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws, koj tus dev pom koj qhov kev ua si thiab yuav sim ua tsov rog nrog koj. Tab sis lawv kuj tuaj yeem nyeem nws ua kev rau txim rau tuav cov khoom. Twb muaj sij hawm yuav raug tom lawm.
Yog tias koj tus dev muaj qee yam teeb meem hauv lawv lub qhov ncauj thiab lawv tseem tsis tau paub qhov "poob nws" cov lus txib, qhov zoo tshaj plaws ua yog pov tseg ib qho kev kho mob rau ntawm lawv xub ntiag. Qhov no yuav txhawb kom lawv tso tseg qhov lawv yuav tsum noj cov khoom noj. Txawm li cas los xij qhov no yog ib qho xwm txheej xwm txheej ceev nkaus xwb, yog tias koj tsim txom txoj kev no koj tus dev yuav khaws txhua yam khoom nyob hauv nws lub qhov ncauj.
Lwm qhov kev qhia yuam kev yog xaiv ib qho lus txib uas zoo ib yam li cov lus txib sib txawv uas tus dev twb paub lawm. Piv txwv li, "Tsab" thiab "nres," piv txwv li. Kev siv ob qho lus txib yuav ua rau tus dev tsis meej pem. Yog tias koj tus dev twb paub lo lus "stop," tej zaum koj yuav xav qhia "poob nws" hais kom siv lo lus "muab" hloov.
Txoj Kev Xav
Qhia koj tus dev qhov "tso nws" cue tuaj yeem lom zem thiab yooj yim. Qhov cue no tseem ceeb heev los qhia koj tus dev, vim tej zaum yuav muaj qee lub sijhawm uas koj xav kom lawv tso qee yam hauv lawv lub qhov ncauj kom lawv muaj kev nyab xeeb. Nws tseem yuav ua rau kev ua si zoo li kev lom zem dua thaum koj tus dev muab koj lub pob rov qab! Nco ntsoov khaws cov kev cob qhia luv luv thiab zoo. Cov dev kawm tau zoo tshaj plaws thaum lawv tau txais nqi zog rau tus cwj pwm zoo, raws li lawv xav ua kom haum lawv tus tswv. Qee tus dev siv sijhawm ntev dua li lwm tus los kawm yam tshiab, tab sis kev ua siab ntev thiab kev ua siab ntev yuav ua rau lub sijhawm ntev.
